Apparently now I am not allowed to know about the income coming into the home either. He says..he didn't know he had to tell me about the cash he had..well..when we are hurting so bad..with practically everything..it would be nice to know..not to mention where the money came from. But I guess its none of my business. I can't believe I am even allowing myself to be in a relationship like this. I've always told myself that I wouldn't do this to me again..I would not allow myself to be unhappy..or feel like I'm being treated as a child..or abused for that matter. Where in the hell is my back bone?